So I already know that some will take offense to this post and I will tell you now that I am sorry you are offended.
Well over the last few weeks that my eyes have been open to the blogging community I have to say that I have seen some of the worst things I ever thought possible, coming from the fingers of people who claim to be Christians. I am not lumping all Christians together in one bag so this is the part that if you are feeling offended then maybe you are guilty of the crime.
One person on another site makes a post about how creeped out that this woman IN HER CHURCH is always talking to her and staring at her baby. This woman just lost her baby that would have been the same age to SIDS a short time ago. This poor woman is grieving the loss of her little one and felt comfortable enough to approach this lady IN CHURCH and talk to her about her baby and share some stories of her own baby and all this lady can do is think about how uncomfortable she is that this woman is anywhere near her. The compassion of the Christian hard at work there.
Then one of the gals who I am growing to consider an online friend posts a comment about how to report if you see things on certain sites that you think may be inappropriate....like someone taking photos of their 4 year old in only a short t-shirt in a PUBLIC PARKING LOT!!! The good Christian women of that site took it upon themselves to follow her to her own blog and proceed in saying things that you would think you would only see in some seedy bar. One of those good Christian women thought that telling her to just go ahead and kill herself and be done with it was a great idea.
These are the same women who will post on this certain site...blogfrog....about how we are hate mongers coming to stir the pot and cause drama. I currently have a posting on that site that has some hidden, but not so hidden, snarkiness about the one that they worship as if she were at the very least second to God. They have not called me out as a hate monger, yet, I am sure that eventually one of those pathetic bitches will come on to my blog and see what was said...I dont really care LOL. They call you out for being a pot stirrer and then call you every name in the book when they think no one is looking if you ask any kind of question or make any kind of a comment that could be directed in any way to the one they worship.
These women scare the hell out of me. I will be very honest about that. They are raising a generation of children who will feel that so long as you say "in the name of God" you can do whatever you want. They are the epitomy of no sense of self. They hide behing their religion, their God, their GODdess. They seem to have no way of being able to think for themselves and will follow along on the bandwagon no matter what it stands for just because they were told to.
I could go on for days why I am not religious but that is neither here nor their. This post is about those crazy bitches that claim to be all about living God's way and being like Jesus. They preach love and peace and do unto others and then when they think no one can see they are the viper of 'Satan' spewing hate and venom like no other can.
*****EDIT*****
I have changed some things in this post as the woman who posted the SIDS message has changed wording and explained things better I figured I could do the same.
I will say this though that if you want to come here and talk smack at me about my posting then have the balls to do it in a non-anonymous manner. Save your breath honestly because it isnt going to get you anywhere. If you come with respect I will reply with respect. If you come to me with a way for me to address you in a more courteous manner I will if not then you may be blasted just as much as you blast me.
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Well Bless Your Heart!
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I personally read and reread the post on SIDS, and I believe that you are the one in greatest need. You have so much hate in your heart, and I feel deeply burdened to pray for you.
ReplyDeletethere really are genuine followers of Jesus out there. it sounds as if you either haven't met any or possibly have some terrible experience with God in your past.
ReplyDeletei'm sorry (honestly) to read how you have no room for Christ. you seem very bitter about something. if what those bloggers are saying is so offensive to you then i guess i would just stop reading.
Anonymous...our courage in backing your words is typical. I do not appreciate you saying that there is hate in my heart. You do not know my heart. I am tired of hypocritical people preaching to the universe as to how people should live and at the same time they do things that make my skin crawl as a human being.
ReplyDeleteTo describe a fellow person who is hurting and in need as creepy and then to post about how you want to help these same kind of people in the blog world is sad and pathetic. That post has now been edited because apparently she reread after my response and realized that she did say that ladies behavior was creepy.
Pray for me if you feel the need but perhaps you should make room for her to not find people IRL who are hurting and drawn to her creepy or uncomfortable.
This girl went to blogfrog asking for help handling the situation. IRL!!! She was honest in telling how she felt, and was seeking help because she didn't know if she was handling it right. AT least she was honest, not hypocritical, and not judgmental. It seems to me that you came to blogfrog looking to point out trouble, and that is the reason that I see bitterness and hate in your heart, and also the reason that I am praying for you.
ReplyDeleteI think you could have done more good to have emailed the lady and told her your concerns rather than bashing her in front of the community. She is trying to do a good thing with this other blog. She's trying to be an encouragement in all parts, and I think it's a GREAT idea. I'll be sure to jump on board as soon as it gets going.
We are all human, and God made us that way. We are all in great need of the work of His hand in our lives everyday. Maybe she doesn't feel the way she should toward the lady in her church, but she was seeking help with that. I think you would have done her (and for that matter, yourself) a greater service by being gracious in offering some advice that she was seeking.
You know what I did in fact tell her that I liked the idea that she had for her new blog I simply pointed out that there was a woman right there that was in need and the words she used were not kind and helpful to describe her. It made her come off like a bitch. She even saw that in fact the wording she used was not appropriate and she changed it.
ReplyDeleteHave your religion and your beliefs but dont come here to call me out on my feelings and what I think. If you want to call me out on your own blog fine and dandy I could give a shit. As it is I still all your ass a coward for posting as anon in order to be safe from me saying anything to you on your own blog or email.
I am sorry that you took offense to what I said to her on BF as that is obviously what led you here. NO I was not on there looking for something to pick apart or to attack, get over yourself.
People that hide behind their god while spouting off are hypocritical and when she was talking about wanting to help people out and describing that woman as creepy was hypocritical.
Hey-
ReplyDeleteI'm new to blogging--this week new. It's a little crazy what people will say online--maybe because it's easier to type out than say to someone's face?
I'm a Christian. I'm sorry that we all come off as holier-than-thou dirtbags. It's because we are. That's why most people come to God--because we really are as weak and pathetic as we look and nothing we do makes it any better. The good thing is that Jesus changes us a little at a time...the bad thing is that everyone else is stuck with us while we try to pretend that we all of the sudden have all the answers and do everything perfectly...
sorry...I don't understand what my other options are besides anonymous is since I don't really have a blog...I'm not especially bloggerworld savvy...
Thank you for giving me a way to address you like a person.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry that you cannot grasp that I have said NUMEROUS times that I am not lumping everyone together. If that is what you want to focus on then maybe you need more church time IDK.
In the very first sentence of this post I addressed what has become you. You are offended and again I am sorry but you are the one who allowed my words to offend you.
Oh, no, not offended...I'm just sorry that christians do so much damage. Somehow to me it seems like an environmentalist that accidentally burns down a redwood forest or something else very precious.
ReplyDeleteI don't think you're trying to lump everyone in together. It sounds like you were trying to be very fair and honest. Maybe I shouldn't have apologized from the whole universal church through time and space, lol...I was just thinking about it lately. The sermon at my church a couple of weeks ago was basically why so many people, statistically speaking, think the church is irrelevant and useless (not that you ever said anything like that at all, I know)...but part of the answer was that people sometimes look at christians and see these glaring things that being in the church should have fixed if it was worth anything...like the person you were talking about not being loving to someone whose baby had died, etc...(here it is if you want to know what I heard... (http://www.sermoncloud.com/sovereign-king-church/declaration-of-in-dependence-part-15/)
maybe it sounds dumb, but you just seem so sincere. It made me want to talk to you about it... just to be able to talk about it. Most of my neighbors and non-christian friends just smile and nod and are so very polite and we have a lot of fun and great times and we share so many other things, but I still don't really know what they think. It made me laugh to hear that you think I need more church time. You are right...I always need more church time, but I don't know a single person outside of the church that would just say it like that. I love it that you did.
I will offer you my email address...little more private LOL
ReplyDeleteI am very willing and open to talk to you about such things. We can discuss such things and share our ideas and opinions about them without trying to convert each other LOL.
I would never assume to try to make someone believe what/how or anything the way that I do..Like I have said so many times...beliefs are a very personal thing and that is how it should be.
Anyway you can email me at shanabe09@yahoo.com I look forward to talking to you and I am going to the link for the sermon you sent me.