Thursday, February 11, 2010

OHIH the Cliff note version

 This is for those of you who are so curious as to what happened to OHIH. There are other versions of pretty near the same thing but I wont post them as I dont have owners permission. So I guess if you have any other questions just ask





So nitty gritty Cliff notes of why we are here:
Krista started OHIH back in July when another web site that was an overmckmama site had just vanished off the face of the earth. People joined up people formed bonds and every day the numbers grew. Fast forward:
Krista was losing her home. Her BF she had for a long time had vanished into the nothing. She was working on trying to either find a job or a place to go for several weeks. Things started going crazy at about this point both on and off the scene. Some may remember some may not but one day HiT let Krista know that she had another place we could use if the running of the blog was too hard for her with everything that was going on….This would have been the first time we got to witness a bit FUCK YOU GET THE FUCK OFF MY BLOG episode. Now anytime that anyone suggested helping out with the blog this was the reaction from Krista.
She was at t-minus 2 hours and counting and she was going to be out of the hotel she had managed to get for a night or two. A lot of women rallied around when CM started gathering money to try to help out. The exact amount of money gathered is not really known but we know there was upwards of about $1300 bucks that was raised. Multiple offers were made to Krista for a place to stay or relocate to. Some of these she simply dismissed, some she dismissed with a thanks but no thanks and QoC got a big fat FUCK YOU!! Her reasons through email to others were that she was waiting for her BF to come to his senses and come back to her as well as that she has trust issues and cannot just go crash on a ‘strangers’ couch.
TC got a big fat FUCK YOU for several different reasons at different times. Though annoying I am not sure why this happened nor do I think that it was deserved but that is not the point the point is once again another tirade of venom and going off at a member.
Won saw that Tee was in need and took it upon herself to rally people that wanted to help to help get her a medical bed. Bella sent her an old computer. And a mattress was also put into motion for her (sorry I cant remember who did that part). Krista FLIPPED out on Won for this. Saying there needed to be investigating done to make sure that Tee was legit. Won set up a Secret Santa with people that wanted to be involved. Krista again went off because it is unsafe for us to be exchanging home addresses and such. Krista had developed a vendetta against both Tee and Won and in the end claimed that they had a previous relationship….It has been explained that they “knew” each other from Mcks BF. Krista went off many times on Tee and Won in nearly violent outbursts.
Krista’s final explosion on Friday night going off on a tirade about Mck as well as anyone who said that Mindy should allow her son to do the assignment on infant mortality, as well as going off on Tee once again. It was crazy. Krista had not been an active poster for nearly a month, by her choice, and once again she was participating but only to tear apart members of her own blog. No apologies. More unfounded claims that there was shady business going on. More inconsistencies of what was going on with where she was……Staying on a friends couch….At Safeway enjoying free internet….Sorry for typo’s typing in the dark….all in the same breaths.
The conspiracy theory parts are up for your interpretation. Now Krista went off about how some were making the blog more like an episode of ER instead of being light and fluffy. Now after that some unknown anon came on BLASTING Rhys….Then another anon came on BLASTING Kirstin…..Then it was Karen’s turn. Now the thing with these blastings is that these were very very very well informed anons. They were certainly not people that just popped on that day they had freaking details that had not been mentioned for WEEKS in some instances. All the while Krista is commenting at Won that she needs to remember Noah…ya know her son who is alive?
There is concern that perhaps Krista may have either mental or substance issues going on which would explain the erratic and manic behavior that was coming from her. She had essentially abandoned her blog yet would come on screaming I CAN SAY WHAT I WANT THIS IS MY BLOG. It is my mind that it was no longer her blog, it was ours…the community that kept it going. Not sure what is happening with her now. In an email response to me she did allude to another possible suicide threat because of what I said to her and what happened to the blog.

20 comments:

  1. Yeah, that about wraps it up! Good job Shannon.

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  2. Thank you! I too, took a long break after things started to go South and when I came back everything was locked up tight. That is rather sad, but I'm glad for MWoP!

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  3. Thank you Shannon, I stopped commenting on OHIH because of Krista's insanity (albeit mostly anon)I had emailed Krista a couple of times, but she never responded.

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  4. God, that was like having a bad flashback. :-D

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  5. Geez I don't like anons...own it! Good recap dear!

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  6. Neither do I Shana but I figured that I would post their comment regardless.....I am bigger than they are :)

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  7. what a long, strange trip it's been...

    good recap. and ya know there was some good that came out of all of that. lots of connections were made. =)

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  8. Very true Heather and I wouldnt trade those wonderful connections for anything!!!! :)

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  9. LOL Heather! A long strange trip indeed! :-)

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  10. I don't understand and would love to have it explained to me. The whole Our Humus Is Homemade was designed an anti-shrine website over her disdain for one person - a person she has never met -and it took people this look to realize that its creator was insane??

    What am I missing?

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  11. LOL I hear ya there Jill.....sure it was a good place for a sounding board but I think in reality a lot of peeps realized her rocks were loose well before the end....it just took the end to make it so much more obvious.

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  12. AHHHH HAAAAAA!! I took a long break cause it went way beyond my opinions and came back to be nosey and it was gonzo...good to know I jumped ship at the right time lol

    Miss ya 'over there' today :(

    ps I cant log on...but its the other Shannon (skeelabum)

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  13. Thank you for posting this recap. i was a longtime lurker on OHIH and wondered what happened after the blog got locked down. Do you know what ever happened to Krista? Did she find a place to live?

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  14. I read and commented until things became less about mck and more about drama and personal things.
    Thanks for letting me know what happened in the end. I do hope Krista has gotten her stuff together and is doing well.

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  15. I have been so curious as to what happened! Shannon, do you have any idea what happened or became ofKrista? Good to see some familiar faces at MWOP. I had missed the entire last 2 weeks of ohih when our nephew was born and passed away, it sounds like it was bad! :/ Anyway, thanks for the cliff note! Ya, ThatGirl (from ohih)

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  16. Shannon, I sent you an email tonight, but now that I found this post, I think I understand more about what happened on OHIH. Please disregard the email and thanks for the complete explanation.
    See you over at MWOP.

    Jan

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