Craziness!!!!

So the last few weeks have been maddeningly crazy and I have neglected my blog. Now I have had a couple of people holler at me that I need to do some updating on here so here I am  :) This will probably be a big mish mash of different stuff. Some good some bad but just kinda what has been going on.

So have you ever had a friend who you could seriously do without yet because he is the brother of your best friend?  This person is someone who at the age of 30 is still NOTHING. He lives with his sister and her fiance and acts like he owns the place even though he pays for NOTHING. Background for a minute. This friend of mine is all about the dangling from hooks and body modification, big time into it. Well when my husband and I got our house, which we no longer have, my husband was working 80 hour work weeks so that he could get everything needed to have our own "SHOP" or set up for doing hangings at our house. He paid for EVERYTHING which in the end was nearly 10K when said and done. Well when my husband went to jail this friend of ours behaved as if it was all about him. He would be at my house 7 days a week with his friends doing new scarier hangings in the garage. Ran up the electric bill to well over $300 and never offered to help out. I had to put my foot down and put an end to it and I became the bitch for a while. He ended up stealing a lot of the stuff my husband had bought. Needless to say not much we can do at this time because as you will read next he is a self absorbed asshole who you can say nothing to because he knows it is all about him.

Well he started up going to school this last fall. The whole world of school is so much more for him and more work then it has ever been for anyone in history. Well during a rough patch while my husband was in jail this 'friend' was drinking 24/7 and taking any kind of pill he could find. The world was so hard on him and he was escaping...never mind he was beating the crap out of everyone around him both literally and metaphorically. Well now that he is in school nobody can go visit at my friend, his sister's, house. He pitches fits at them because everyone is drunk and fucked up.....last time he invited us to come over it was his idea and he didnt even come out of his room for more then 5 minutes to run through and get a smoke.....we all had maybe a case of beer....5 adults, 2 1/2 beers each...not enough to get fucked up on. He pitched fits the next day. Now I REFUSE to go over to their house and it ticks me off because it is my friends house not his, he is the freeloader.

Phew ok thanks for letting me get that off my chest.

After many many months I think we have found the problem with my truck. The old mechanic replaced a lot of stuff including the distributor. Unfortunately he only half assed it and still used old parts mixed with new and in an effect managed to ruin the new with the old. So I get to figure out how I am going to get another $160 for the distributor but I am stoked because now I know what the problem is and it isnt as bad as I originally thinking it was going to be. My new mechanic is freaking awesome and as soon as I get the part he is going to throw it in for me then I will have a truck I can drive that I have done 90% of all the work on to get her up and runnin.

So many of you know that my favorite place to hang has had an implosion and the peeps have scattered. Well the good news is is that we have been reconnecting in different places started up because of the implosion. I want to let the trolls that enjoyed tearing people apart that they were not the ones responsible for the implosion. They didnt even help. It was internal and there is ultimately only one person to blame. I still have the people I came to care about and that is what is important to me.Kind of amazing how it is that a group could come together like that and grow into a community of people that really and truly support each other.

My school stuff is going pretty good right now. Think I am still passing everything LOL getting myself a little less behind feeling and that makes me very very happy.

Get to go Thursday to make sure we have all our stuff needed for Thanksgiving cooking....I am so freaking excited!!!!! I love Thanksgiving and Christmas....there is sooooo much food!!!!!

Oh and I am planning on doing some kind of a post showing two sided of this whole religious debate that has been going on. Not sure when that will happen for sure but it will be coming!!


Ok I dont know what else to say so that is all ya get ya heathens!!!!!